Ideas on how to enjoy your singlehood

Being single is often seen as a waiting period before a relationship, but it can actually be one of the most rewarding seasons of life.

Instead of focusing on what’s missing, this is a time to focus on growth, self-discovery, and fulfillment. By embracing this phase with joy and purpose, you can make the most of your singlehood.

Here are some ideas to inspire you along the way.

• Pursue Your Personal Goals

  Singlehood offers the perfect opportunity to work on personal goals. Whether it’s advancing in your career, finishing school, or learning something new, this time allows you to focus on your dreams.

  Use this period to explore your passions, set meaningful goals, and work toward achieving them without distractions.

• Build Strong Friendships

  Friendships are just as important as romantic relationships, and singlehood gives you more time to invest in these connections. Surround yourself with friends who encourage and support you.

  Strong friendships help you feel fulfilled, provide emotional support, and bring joy to your life. Make time for fun activities, meaningful conversations, and creating lasting memories with the people you care about.

• Engage in Hobbies and New Interests

  Have you ever wanted to pick up a new hobby or try something you’ve never done before?

  Now is the time!

  Use your single season to explore new interests, whether it’s painting, hiking, or learning a musical instrument. Hobbies not only bring you joy but also help you discover new talents and passions.

• Focus on Self-Care

  Taking care of yourself is essential during this phase of life. Self-care involves more than just pampering yourself—it’s about taking time to rest, eat well, exercise, and nurture your mental and emotional well-being.

  Prioritize activities that help you feel refreshed, such as reading, meditating, or simply enjoying quiet moments.

• Develop a Deeper Relationship with God

  For those who value their faith, singlehood is a perfect time to grow closer to God. You have the space and time to deepen your spiritual life, whether through prayer, Bible study, or serving others.

  Strengthening your relationship with God can bring a sense of purpose and peace during this time.

• Explore New Opportunities

  Your single season is an excellent time to take risks and explore new opportunities.

  Whether it’s traveling, taking on a new challenge, or getting involved in community work, don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. Exploring the world around you helps broaden your perspective and adds excitement to life.

• Serve Others

  There’s joy in serving others, and singlehood gives you the time to do just that.

  Whether through volunteering, mentoring, or helping those in need, serving others can bring a sense of fulfillment and purpose. Plus, it’s a great way to connect with people and make a positive difference in your community.

Embrace Your Singlehood with Joy and Purpose

Singlehood is not just a time of waiting for a relationship—it’s a valuable season of life. By focusing on growth, relationships, hobbies, and service, you can make the most of this time.

Embrace this phase with joy and purpose, knowing that it’s an opportunity to grow, discover new things, and live a fulfilling life.

For more ideas on personal growth and enjoying singlehood, visit the youth and personal development pages on HFA.

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The following information is designed to help you make the most out of singlehood. You’ll see how it can be seen as a blessing, and you’ll get ideas on how to prepare for marriage while you wait.

Watch what this video has to say about being single

Disclaimer: Hope for Africa is not affiliated with the following video. It is simply being provided as a helpful resource for singles.

If you can’t be Single, you can’t be Anything by Pr. Rei Kesis by Newlife SDA Church Nairobi

Sermon by Pr. Rei Kesis at Newlife SDA Church during the Adventist Single Adult Ministries on 14 May 2022.

6 Bible verses about being single

Compiled by the Hope For Africa staff on September 20, 2024

Bible verses related to “Ideas on how to enjoy your singlehood” from the New King James Version (NKJV) by Relevance

• 1 Corinthians 7:32-34
  “But I want you to be without care. He who is unmarried cares for the things of the Lord—how he may please the Lord. But he who is married cares about the things of the world—how he may please his wife.”
  Explanation: Dedicate your youth to God’s service and grow in your relationship with Him before you are occupied with marriage responsibilities.
• Psalm 37:4
  “Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart.”
  Explanation: There is greater enjoyment when we align our heart’s desires with God’s plan.
• Philippians 4:11-13
  “Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content: I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
  Explanation: When we are in Christ, we learn to be content or self-sufficient and independent in life. We also learn to handle any challenging circumstances with confidence and peace.
• Ecclesiastes 3:1
  “To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven.”
  Explanation: Enjoy your single life by doing things that will build your future life and help you grow closer to God.
• Isaiah 40:31
  “But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.”
  Explanation: Those who are sincere and humble in seeking God’s wisdom, strength and guidance receive new grace and renewed strength to help them to attain greater heights.
• Matthew 6:33
  “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.”
  Explanation: As you take care of God’s business in single life, God will also take care of your issues and supply all your needs.

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